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Know that kids still need structure. The next time you get into a heated situation, tell your kids you are taking a time-out.

And yet, about a quarter of parents do it—despite a pile of evidence that it's the wrong approach. 5 things you might not know about spanking (including whether it’s ever ok)

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The american academy of pediatrics strengthened its advice against corporal punishment in update guidelines, saying it makes kids more aggressive and raises the risk of mental health issues. “i was spanked and i’m ok”…oh really?

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Kids that are spanked get the message that they are bad and naughty. You're bigger and stronger than your child -- and you can use that to defuse a situation, rather than to hurt.

Here's what spanking does to kids. none of it is good, doctors say.

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